I also want to acknowledge the incredible amount of effort it must have taken to put this together. I modified and developed a matrix for our work training English teachers (using the progression you have here from unconsciously unskilled to unconsciously competent) and from that experience I offer a deeper sense of gratitude and appreciation.

Thank you, too, for your clarity about how you want to share this. It has really helped me both know how to do so and also feel a sense of confidence in knowing how it is that you would like this shared and respected.

Wishing you all a joyful week,
Mary

There are many interesting leads in the letter your wrote, my eyes zeroed in on “healing shock” and would like a list of interventions for that.
what I am understanding is, first one gets present with one’s body, and connect to searching out and observing the sensations one is going through and finding ways to describe them.

next I’m guessing one important intervention for healing would be to allow the body to process the experience without trying to control it but to be present as an observer self (while empathizing and connecting to the needs that are being expressed and felt) and giving full acceptance of allowing and trusting (truly listening and giving an acceptance that it makes sense to have the reactions one has)

would you mind a hypothetical example of a person processing and healing shock and also how another person helps in that?

Stages of Emotional Processing NVC Self-Connection Mickey’s term is Embodiment
Interventions

How to know if you are not connected to yourself. David Grove: Ask, “And when I say the word “I” where is my “I’ when I say the word “I”?”Mickey’s Question. Ask, “Are I willing to come back into your this area of my body?”Additional Lammers sentence: LogosynthesisI retrieve all my energy bound up in (event, person, place) and take it back into the right place in my Self.

Healing shock (Caused by life threatening events in our lives.
Works with body Sensations
Interventions

“What sensations do you have in your body when you think or talk about this situation? Whole Body Trembling- Can I let this body part move?” How does this body part want to breathe?

Working with Sadness, Anger and Fear
Metaphor Simple metaphor-location, size, shape, how much water can it hold? (Ken Keyes)
Complex Metaphor- Clean Language (David Grove)
Focusing especially “Treasure Souls” (Ann Cornell )

Expressive Techniques – letting go of resistance to what is, and being willing to allow our experience to unfold. (From http://pathwaystoliberation.net/skills/) Sadness-Crying. NVC encourages ala skills, Robert Gonzales
Anger- Angering, Raging- No NVC –Enjoy the Jackal show
Fear-Fearing, Trembling

Transformative, Transcendence
NVC- What need does this emotion point to?
Sedona-Kinesthetic Releasing
Byron Katie –Four Questions
Mickey -Fear: Focus on body sensation and ask, What was there before this?
Mickey-Anger: Focus us on body sensation and say, “I am”